Selective mutism is an anxiety disorder seen in 1 out of every 140 children.
It is not rare. It is simply unrecognized most of the time.
These children are not silent because they don't know how to speak — they are silent because intense anxiety prevents them from using their voice in certain settings.
They cannot answer when a teacher calls their name.
They cannot burst out laughing while playing.
They cannot cry out loud when they're hurt.
There are words inside them; they just can't get out.
This silence is not a choice.
It is a compulsion. A struggle.
When not supported at an early age, self-confidence, social relationships, and the courage to express oneself can be seriously affected.
Research shows that support given before the age of 8 is significantly more effective.
As time goes on, anxiety can deepen, and silence can become permanent.
I lived through this process with the most important person in my life — my brother.
I am not a therapist or a specialist.
But I am a big brother who knows what this silence means.
As a young LEGO enthusiast, I saw that play can become a bridge when the right environment is created.
I witnessed that when pressure is removed and trust is built, speech follows.
I believe in LEGO's motto: "Play is Your Superpower."
Play truly is a superpower.
I also believe in the approach "Only the best is good enough."
When it comes to children, only the best should be done.
And that's exactly why I say this:
For children with selective mutism, it is more than possible that play is at its most powerful during the years when it matters most.
Mini-Talks can be a beginning.
But my hope is that it inspires much more.
When technology, game design, science, and social awareness come together, real change is possible.
If you are reading this today and have access to knowledge, resources, or influence that could help a child find their voice,
please don't wait.
Don't let a child spend their childhood in silence.
If play is a superpower,
we should use that power most for children whose voices go unheard.
And if we say "Only the best is good enough,"
then the best is that no child remains silent.
Because no child
should have to stay silent during the years when they are learning to speak, to laugh, and to express themselves freely.
Together, we can make their voices heard.
Alp Özpamir
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